Asking a cheating partner if they’re cheating on you is perhaps one of the most stupid things to do because they wouldn’t tell you the answer you want to hear.
So what do you do? You pay close attention to their day to day living and see what changes you observe in their lives and how they treat you.
Below is a confession of a cheating woman asking advice on how to deal with her addiction after seeing several men.
I don’t know where to start, if I would say that this started when I got married, then I would have to say it started when I first met my bf, or when I first joined college and so on and so forth so I’ll only say it just came.
I have been married for quite a long time now, over 8 years. At first, everything was fine but then due to some behaviour changes, I had my husband investigated and the results were not entertaining. I found out he was cheating with several women including his workmates and there was solid proof to show it.
I was devastated, I guess I loved my husband so much plus this was the first time this was happening to me. For long had watched cheaters in soap operas, shows, read in novels but not once did it ever cross my mind I would be one day on the receiving end of things. I couldn’t feel anything, I became a brick even during sex I was just there physically and felt nothing.
That went on for months until an incidence happened. I was over at my PI’s office, the one who investigated my husband and without knowing we had an explosive sex session in his office. After that, I was so devasted but at the same time couldn’t forget that one time and a few days later I had an explosive session this time with my husband.
I don’t know what changed, maybe it’s because I was raised to believe that cheating is bad and I was making up for the mistake I had made. A few days after my session with the PI, I had these moments of guilt that I almost told my husband what I had done. It’s not until a few months later that I discovered he had a side-chick, like another wife who already had a child and my life changed completely if it hadn’t already from there onwards.
First days, a lot of thoughts were going through my mind, in all honesty, I even thought of killing her and my husband but I never told him a word. Even now I have never told him a word about it and it’s been over two years since I discovered it. It’s just that I also changed as a result.
I have to admit at my age I have become a sex addict like a teenager, I have slept with so many guys I don’t know the count and this is in just a space of two years or so. We live happily with my husband sometimes I wonder if he knows what I do and keeps it to himself like I know all his mischief but that doesn’t stop me from exploring.
I have even done the worst, I have even paid male-escorts in the process of fulfilling my urge for different people. I have been with two women and frankly, I don’t know if am going to stop this any time soon even though I have been trying to stop without bearing fruit.
The best time I ever did when I decided to stop was two weeks then I was back in normal business. I wish if there was anyone here, a woman for that matter who has gone through this and quit for good to share how they did it through the admin.