Many at times we get into a social gathering and see someone we like. You seem to like the guy a lot, but how do you get him to ask you out? Find out how to get a guy to ask you out using these smart ways.
There are many ways to ask a guy out. But to ensure that it works on a guy, you have to remember to never make it obvious that you have a huge crush on him. Let a guy know that you’re interested in him. But don’t let him know you need him. Not at least until he starts reciprocating your move.
A guy may want to ask you out, but when he realizes that you like him a lot more than he likes you, he’d start to take it easy just to see what you’d do about it. And that’s something you should never forget.
There are two things a girl has to do to wow a guy and get him to ask her out. You have to drop a few signs. And you have to become desirable in his eyes.
The little signs that matter
Drop a few signs so he starts to look at you as a dating potential. Sometimes, a guy may assume you’d never be interested in being anything more than friends with him. To help him see the dating side in you, here are a few tips you could use.
1. Get your friend to call you both a couple
You could be out on a dinner date or catching up with friends and the guy you like happen to be there, ask a trusted girlfriend to join both of you in the conversation. While you are all having a good time, she can talk to someone in the group and say something like, “these two make a cute couple, don’t they?”
It might lead to a little laugh around the group or seem awkward but no matter how embarrassed you might seem, the thought has been instilled in his head. It’s all that matter right?
2. Using a friend to tease him
It’s good not to use all the statements all the time, at least use those that you are comfortable with. When you are having a conversation with this guy, tell your friend beforehand to butt into the conversation. Ask your friend to tell the guy that it’s so obvious he likes you, and ask him when he’s ever going work up his courage to ask you out?! Of course, she has to make seem a joke but poses it as a serious question.
Your friend doing the teasing eases things up and this offloads the duty from you. It will also let you know that f he likes you, he will use the opportunity to take you out.
3. Invite him to join you
If you’ve made any plans with your friends for the weekend, casually bring the subject up when you’re hanging out with him and invite him to come out with all of you. Depending on what he likes, tease him by asking him to hang out with you or to go see the new place. It works like magic and you never know, he might end up liking you.
4. Weekend plans
Find out what he likes and use that to plan a surprise. If you’re not sure of his weekend activity, you could just tell him that you’ve always wanted to try whatever he will say….wink!
This only works if both of you share a few common interests. You obviously can’t stretch a lie here, so be careful when it comes to sharing activities over the weekend. If he is interested in you, he may invite you to join him on his weekend activity. And who knows, it may just lead to something more romantic.
5. Let him know your routine
If a guy has to ask you out, he has to miss you now and then. It’s best to let him know of your schedule, for example your everyday routine, this will give him ideas in case he wishes to make a visit or surprise you. If he leaves nearby then you are lucky. Once he is aware of your routine, he may even end up bumping into you on a regular basis. And almost all the time, love emerges with more together time, doesn’t it?
6. Get him to drive you nearby
Stepping out of the office to run an errand after work? Try bumping into him on your way out and ask him to come along with you or drive you nearby to help you out. And after finishing up your errand, ask him out for coffee. Insist and tell him it’s the least you can do for helping you out. And once you’re out there on a *date* with him, make him see your good side and be awed by you.