Domestic violence has been a major issue in today’s marriages. Many are times ladies stay in abusive marriages in the name of love.
Bernice Njeri, famously known as Njambi of the Real house helps f Kawangaware, has spoken out on how she went through domestic violence but was hesitant to quit.
It has been great fear to share the experience but after having witnessed how many women are victims of the same, she decided to.
She narrated; “This video reminds me of me and thanks to Xtine229. I would probably be dead….
A friend of mine asked me if am ready to talk about how I was a victim of domestic violence….. Well, maybe I am… Just maybe… Kidogo tu….
Well, siku hizi I don’t see it as a big deal because I and my set family laugh about it from time to time… Coz there was a time my face was literally dismantled.
I had to write a script and I lied to my set family of how I was about to be robbed, And the thieves beat me up…… And that wasn’t the first time, I remember he came to set, and he told my set family of how he was so used to beat me Up..
In his words ” aaah,Huyo mi hupiga”…(but that day it was my fault, the black eye, my bruised legs, my swollen face, some broken ribs, those were my fault, I made him angry… I was to blame) ……
One day I’ll probably tell you guys why I didn’t leave the first time he laid his hands on me… No, I was not weak….. I was foolishly in love…..
Sometimes I really want to talk about what I’ve been through, but definitely, there’s someone who has gone through much worse than I have, so I choose to just keep such things to myself… … But then again, I don’t blame him..
It was always my fault…..always, I didn’t know how to shut up….. Every time he beat me it was my fault……. But hey am happy I felt… So if you ask me if I would go back to my daddy not in a million years.”
Her revelation comes after she talked out of how she fell into depression after parting ways with her baby daddy.
She was afraid that she couldn’t make it raising her daughter all by herself. She has, however, overcame the whole situation and is a proud single mother.