Before you think of ending your relationship with someone, you need to be sure of the fact that you’re making the right decision. If you’re ending it only to get back with them, then you rather not go through the emotional ordeal of a breakup. But make sure that you stick to whatever it is that you decide to do in the first place.
It’s not easy to put yourself out there, let your guard down and actually fall for someone. Sometimes, giving it your all is not enough for the other person and that person defo doesn’t deserve you in their lives. You, in fact, deserve someone better and need to get out of this toxic relationship before it destroys you.
There will be a point when you miss them and would want to get back together. Prepare yourself for such situations and make sure you distract yourself from their memories. It isn’t as easy as it sounds, is it? There are so many things to keep in mind because there’s so much history between you two that it could get really ugly.
Never ever break up over a text. A text can never deliver the right tone and that can really create misunderstandings. In this case, call them up and tell them that you want to meet them and make sure they show up. It’s confrontation time! Basically, the time to tell them you want to end your relationship with them. I really suggest you tell them what you feel, but don’t be harsh unless it’s really necessary.
You will want to call them up or worse, get back together. You need to stay strong during this time and the best way to do that is to remind yourself why you broke up with them in the first place. That’ll help you in moving on from that toxic relationship.