It is tricky to reach out to someone after a one-night stand. Finding out what to say, what not to say if you want to do it again is a bit worrisome. What you say or text must convey the right tone.
One of the most challenging parts about texting a one-night stand is that, irrespective of the type of relationship you or want to pursue, it normal to worry about coming out too strong, or, on the other side seeming uninterested.
Where’s the line? It’s confusing, but if you want to keep hooking up with no strings attached, fret not. There is a way to show that very desire without all the troubles.
Keeping in mind that you and your one-night stand have already been very intimate, there’s a possibility that whatever you say won’t be ‘too much’- at least sexually. Unfortunately, you don’t know them very well, after all it was just a one-night stand.
Make sure that all your texts reflect your intentions. You don’t want or have to ask them out for dinner or drinks when all you really want is to smash. Theoretically, honesty is the way to go but it is easier said than done.
So, if you want to hook up again, here is what you can say:
1.Last night was fun.We should do it again sometime.
Straight to the point.
2. You took me on quite a ride last night.
This text feeds on your one-night stand’s ego. Everyone loves to be told that they did well and smash buddies are no different.
3.You were so impressive last night. I’ll give you a standing ovation if you do it again.
This text not only gives your one-night stand a flirtatious promise but it also tells them of how great they were.
4. I thought about last night all day. Can we make that happen again soon?
5. I just happened to be in the neighborhood. You busy?
You are probably not ‘in the neighborhood’ but whatever. You just taking matters into your own hands. If you don’t wanna wait for some later time you can travel to them.
6. Round 2?
Keeping it short and sweet.