Media personality and social media influencer Janet Mbugua has has come out to given her other side on what vlogger Lisa Gaitho said in her YouTube video.
While drawing her conclusion of the holy bible, Janet partially supported the underlying message of submission.
She mentioned that the bible is clear about submission quoting the verse “wives submit to your husbands and husbands love your wives”.
While addressing her followers on her live video on Instagram, Janet said that,“spoiler alert: I am not going to throw shade at Lisa Gaitho. I don’t throw shade, that’s not my style.”
She further added saying that, “The bible is very clear about submission. It is probably one of the most misunderstood words. Because submission sometimes it is often confused with being subservient and that is what most women have an issue with.”
Janet spoke about a pre-marriage session she went through with older married women in her family who taught her the importance of submission.
She further said that, “The way I understand submission is that you do it out of love. When you love someone and they love you back, there is a lot of mutual respect. She wasn’t too far off.”
Later in the video, she was clear to separate the fact that doing it for transactional reasons is not the right way to look at it, urging couples to understand each other’s love language.
Janet’s comments comes days after Lisa was trolled on social media for advising women to be submissive to their husband particularly washing them.
According to Ms. Gaitho, “I think personally as women there are things we need to do and I know people will fight me on this. We like being independent oh I can do I can do, which is true… What is it that you are doing that he will be like, no, if I lose this I am not going to get this again…?”
She added that the secret was to understand and speak the ‘man’s language’ on what he also needs and not necessarily what she desires very time.
She further added saying, “Treat him like a baby, treat him like he is King, even the small things that you think are not necessary, do it, trust me it goes a long way. There are certain things that you will do and he will say uhm, that chick, like he will never let anyone rubbish you, even if you do something and someone comes and tell him he will be like mmm no that is my woman don’t even try it.
That is not all.
“If he wants to take a bath you should go and wash him, scrub him. Don’t let him do anything by himself, clean his ears like how you would wash a baby. Try it, put mafuta on his body, dress him!”Added Gaitho.
This is what Lisa had to say on her you tube