The cheza chini hitmaker, Vivian, has shared an encouraging message to fellow women. The mother of one reminded women that their worth is not measured by their status, either married or single.
She said; “Dear fellow woman,Your worth is not governed by your single or marital status. Whether you’re a single mother or married woman of 5 kids. What you need to focus on is your values and your character.
What you need to focus on is whether you take responsibility for the choices you make. Grow your self and be the best kind of woman. Kind and forgiving. Be the kind of woman you want other women to be.”
Vivian got into a relationship with Sam West despite having a child from her previous relationship. Sam West was so positive in accepting her with her daughter.
He said that being in a relationship with a single mum is advantageous because she is mature and ready to settle; “When someone comes from another relationship, that is her past because it is the same case with me. We have to live in the present.
I love her and I don’t have any problems with her kid. It’s also good to understand that its always an advantage when dating someone who has been taking care of her own household. Someone who has been taking care of a child my friend is more mature than one who doesn’t.”
The couple has been dating for years and held a Kikuyu traditional ceremony for payment of dowry, setting the stage ready for a white wedding.