There are certain factors (or excuses) to which women welcome, to return to the person who has given us so many headaches. Sad but true. Who doesn’t want the chance to make something bad into something better? You see that his fatal flaws still exist and yet, you believe that this time around, you’ll say the right things and motivate the right way to make him and your relationship rock. The only problem is, by taking an ex back, there’s a good chance you’re reinforcing his bad behavior.
You see Exes are like that second piece of chocolate cake: so tempting, so delicious, that we can forget beneath that velvety icing are diabetes-inducing levels of carbs and enough sugar to make you break out just by looking at it.
Here are the 6 most common reasons why a girl returns with her ex, so that you learn them and do not make the same mistake yourself:
1. Some people are not prepared to be alone
Being alone. How that phrase hurts, right? Many people cannot stand it, and they need to link their lives to people, who sometimes do not even really love them, or do them well, just because they do not feel that loneliness.
2. That you will change him
Women tend to have this self-congratulation that they will change what they did not like about the man. It is a feeling shared by many women, “I know that it will change me, I will change it”. 80% of cases never ends with the desired result for women.
3. Getting out of the comfort zone is hard
“Better bad known, than good to know” It is easy to fall back into a past relationship because it is comfortable. It is difficult to rebuild the building of trust with another person, it costs time and work, and many times you think “do I have to do the same work again? Is it worth trying? I will achieve it? And these doubts, are those that lead you to think about returning to what you had.
4. The security that you felt when you were in a couple
Of any kind, economic, sentimental or corporeal, feel secure after all. Sometimes, we need to join the person we knew, because what we already know gives us confidence and security, we know what to expect. We are afraid of the unknown.
5. They are fed up with the single life!
Being single means: going out, partying with people and getting the best out of you ALL the time. Hard work, exhausting and not always gives good results. So go back to your ex, it saves you effort, and hours of makeup and party that nobody will value you. Do you know any other reason why a girl is able to return to her ex? If it happened to you, tell us
6. The fear of being stripped of what you consider yours
Many women, (but more than you can imagine) return with their ex for fear that they will find another better, more beautiful, that they want more and that, in addition, CAN ARRIVE TO CHANGE FOR HER.
It hurts his ego, and they prefer to go back to him before he does not want to come back anymore.