Living with a jealous husband isn’t easy.We often make promises to our partners before marriage. Not all these promises are fulfilled at the end of the day. Jealousy and possessiveness become intolerable when it gets out of hand and starts to eat the relationship.
Frequently, a wife feels desired if her husband displays loving possessiveness or a boyfriend feels more loved and important if his girlfriend gets a little irritated when he checks out other women. So when does it get to be a problem? Some of the things we do not do are because of jealousy.
Here are some things that make you a jealous husband.
1. She is ever talking about her ex
The flames of her past relationship can come up from time to time. As a wife, you need to avoid talking about your ex-boyfriend. He is highly likely to be jealous, if you keep talking about your ex in his presence.
- Crushing on celebrities
Some men become mad and jealous whenever their spouses reveal their crushes. There is no reason to become angry at her because she is only crushing over him. The crush only shows that your partner admires good things and there is no reason to become angry.
- Finding someone else funny
Laughing at another person’s jokes can make your partner think twice. Some people do not feel good whenever you laugh at the jokes of another person of the opposite sex. Some partners feel insecure when they realize you are finding his jokes funny all the time.
Admit your jealous behavior and accept that your jealousy is hurting your marriage. Discuss the roots of your or your spouse’s jealous feelings. Don’t spy on your spouse. As a jealous spouse, make a decision to change your behavior. You may need to get individual counseling.