There are definite ways to be happy without a man and that is exactly what you need in your life. This means that if your man leaves you don’t become sad and miserable, you will move on faster than someone who is dependent on a man for happiness.
1. Know who you are
There is nothing better than knowing your strengths and weaknesses. Knowing yourself means you take the time to shape your identity, you get to know your hobbies, the food you like and basically when someone asks you about you, you can tell them everything about you and you will not need to seek for approval.
2. Spend some time alone
Take time to enjoy your own company, enjoy your space doing the things you love. If you’re in a relationship you need to take time off from your man so that you don’t get so lost in his life and his hobbies. Sometimes you become too attached to a man that you become like him so who were you before him?
3. Make your own money
Become independent sweetheart, this is the best gift you can give yourself. Having your own money gives you the power and confidence you need in your life. You also don’t need to always overwhelm a man to spend money on you especially if he doesn’t want to because you have your own.
4. Spend time with independent women
Because they will motivate you and eventually you become like the people you hang out with so make sure they are also positive.
5. Get rid of the fear of being alone
Because people can leave you at any time and guess who you’re going to be with? You will be alone and that is not a bad thing because you are awesome I mean who wouldn’t want to be around you? That is why you need to spend more time sharpening your personality to be a better person, even so, when you’re alone you don’t bore yourself.
6. Believe that you are more than enough
You need to believe that you are the bomb because no else can believe it for you. Once you understand that you are an amazing human being then no man can ever make you feel like you’re not enough.
You need to love yourself first before you’re able to love and be with anyone in your life. Take time and enjoy your life, discovering yourself is a never-ending journey that will only be done when you die. For now, keep trying new things, make more money, take care of yourself and have fun.