Attraction is a tricky thing. It provides strength to people who are willing to do anything and everything for the other person. With the growth of technology, human interaction has switched from face-to-face conversations to a more digital approach.
Therefore, understanding, adapting, and following standard communication practices has become a necessity. Texting is a modern method of communicating that helps reduce uncertainty and anxiety, especially during dating.
Texting can help you build or destroy your relationship depending on what you text your partner. Here are three things that girls text that scares guys away;
1. Texting him about your ex
Never tell him about your ex especially via text. Guys do not wish to hear about someone whom you used to date neither do they want to act like a therapist that would relieve all your feelings.
Texting him about your ex would make him think that your not over your past and that would scare him.
2. Lack of proper grammar in texts.
Using proper grammar in structuring your texts is a huge turn on to a guy. Avoid using jargons in your texts. Make sure you spell check your texts before sending them.
According to research done by Bustle, they found out that 36 per cent of men said that this was a complete turn-off.
3. Responding with short answers
Responding with ‘K’, ‘fine’ or ‘cool’ is completely off the line. These short responses annoy men as they mean that you are not interested in talking to them.
If you cannot write a complete sentence, this would mean your not even worth the relationship. Texting isn’t rocket science, but that doesn’t stop some people from making errors which can’t be neglected.
In our society, we have certain norms that are expected to be followed and it’s better as it aids to maintain a mutual relationship.