Women have different views of what kind of men they would want to date and what qualities they look for in a man.
Before falling for him women consider alot, money, love, trust are all some contributing factors.
However, most people believe that women nowadays value money more than moral values. Some women have unrelentingly responded to this question of is they would rather date a broke but faithful man or a rich but randy man.
This is however easier said than done, as Natalie Tewa has so gracefully illustrated in her very public relationship end.
According to her ex, Rnaze, the beautiful youtuber cheated on him while he was away in Uganda, within just a span of four days.
She has since exposed the fact that he was a broke guy which probably led to her kuhanya.
She regrets sharing passwords with his as she claims he has deleted her money making content from Youtube and Instagram.
Many have taken to twitter to condemn this babe’s behaviour without realizing that this is something very apparent in today’s society, speaking on Kenya’s behalf specifically.
When a man cheats, it’s expected and tolerated but when a babe does it everyone throws rocks? Calm your tits people, your double standards is showing.
People need to realize today’s woman will get what she wants irregardless of how she does it, the end justifies the means. This is especially so if what she’s looking for in a man is not being served at the table.
Increasingly, a rich man is becoming more popular. Here are some of the reasons Kenyan women are no longer settling for less financially;
A broke man is a handicapped man! If he cannot handle the bills then what of use is he?
Being independent and living with a broke man under the same roof, will make sure he leaves you bankrupt. He will borrow money and spend it with some low life girls somewhere else.
Your broke boyfriend will expect you spend 8 good hours in a job you love so much and still wait for you to come home do his laundry, cook supper, wash the kids and work you all night while all he does is lie around.
Ladies beware if you date this type of guy because as soon as he starts smelling his own cheque, he will either cheat on you with another woman or leave and get married to another from his hometown.
A broke man is always comfortable at his current situation, he is never quick to look for a job because he knows that you are there to settle everything.
Taking care of a man who cannot take care of himself is unheard of. Since creation, it a man’s job to take care of the woman and not vice-versa.
A man who is not earning lacks purpose and motivation to achieve his own. A man who works has a drive and a passion that a broke man doesn’t have because he does not understand the pride that comes with earning a salary.
It takes a strong woman to know what she wants and go out and get it. Cheating is in no way tolerated but all I’m saying is , I’m sure Natalie had valid reasons.
And to top it all off, he also physically abused her!!! Wouldn’t you rather be single as well?
As petty as the whole situation has been handled, Slut shaming her and calling her ‘shimo la Tewa’ isn’t the way to right a wrong.