Why Akothee’s Advice to Daughters Should go Viral

Akothee is no stranger to drama and scandal, she is clearly defying societal codes, gaining fame and making money in the process. What most people do not know is Akothee started at the bottom of the food chain with not much going for her. Her looks would be described as average, she has no notable pedigree, her education (as evidenced by her linguistic skills) is wanting; and clearly, she was not born with a silver spoon in her mouth.

Recently, she had attracted the ire of Kenya’s moral star Bwana Mutua. So apparently, Kenyans want Akothee to follow the code that states that once a woman has children, no part of her flesh should show and the only tales she should regale the world with are tales of her children, not tales of her enterprises, her men or her outfits.

For those not in the know, about a week ago Akothee was performing at some show at the Coast and it appears she did some stunts meant to excite her audience. From the look of things, this worked since some people in the audience took pictures and circulated them in certain social platforms.

Yet many more will tell you that it is amazing that she somehow manages to maintain some form of decent relationship with their fathers and even gets them to pay for her. Hats off to her! Many women cannot get their baby daddies to do anything for their kids. Maybe Akothee’s challenge is that there are many people who want her to conform to what they call ‘women standards.’ On Tuesday Akothee took to Social Media and sent a breathtaking message to her daughters.

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age is now separating us 😭😭,I dont want to let you go my best friends, just know that wherever you go whatever you do, discipline is paramount, never settle down for a man who doesnt love you, never force yourself into toxic relationships, never wait for any man to pay your bills they will hold you randsome, never listen to a man who asks you to have a child without a stable income, thats a story teller , A responsible man who wants a family , should first look for a stable job and a roof over his head, how would you get pregnant for a man living with his brother, mother auntie, you think you and the baby are welcome too? 😂dont fall for celebrities , fame comes and goes , dont come bragging to me that you are carrying a celebs pregnancy simply because he is famous, I will beat you up and squiize that stomach , you know me ,🤯 fame doesnt pay bills , dont mess your life at an early stage ! I am your mother and in my mid thirties I am still hot 🔥🔥, I choose who to date I am never picked , just giving you 2 more years and then I start living mylife and enjoying mylife with the love of my life , how I wish I was abit patient ,I would not have landed into so many multyfailed relationships , please don't end up like me with several dads , i dont think you are brave enough to face & tackle 3 men , women cry for 1 man for years Akothee is here with supermarkets of baby daddies 🤣😂🤣😂 it looks funny but it needs a sobber mind and a risk taker, 😷 life must continue my love , that boy whispering in your ears " I need a baby , because I love you " is lying he is horny he just wants sex , @rue.baby @fancy_makadia @veshashillan #tableshaker

A post shared by AKOTHEE KENYA (@akotheekenya) on Feb 25, 2019 at 10:40pm PST

Her advice is certainly something we should learn from. She starts off by calling her children best friends, I mean how many of our parents at this time and age do that? They even hardly have time for you. Akothee asks her girls in the post, to ensure that they never force themselves into toxic relationships and never wait on any man to pay for their bills because they would hold them at ransom.  

She also went ahead and gave her daughters an ultimatum of two years, claiming that’s when she will start enjoying her life. Well, what’s your take on her advice? I honestly think she is just being real with them, and letting them know that they should avoid doing a few things that she regrets having done.