I don’t think anyone would be in a relationship were it not for love. Getting the relationship you want is pegged almost entirely on what you are willing to do to get it.When love doesn’t exist between parties then the relationship is doomed for bad things.
One Timothy Kimani Ndegwa, popularly known as Njugush, his acting name, is with no doubt one of the funniest comedian Kenya have. The comedian, a trained journalist tied the knot with the love of his life Celestine Ndinda in a colourful wedding back on 16th December 2016. The two met back in college and dated for quite a while before the nuptials.
There are certain things you must accept if you want your relationship to succeed. The reason as to why they are hugely liked is because they keep their life simple and even co-act. Below are 10 things we can learn from Njugush and Wakavinye to have a successful relationship;
1. Accept that your partner is human and can make mistakes sometimes.
2. Learning from the power Couple, you should accept that every relationship has good and bad times.
3. There are certain things you cannot change. Especially about someone. We are bred in a society that is diverse, so accept when you cannot change a few things.
4. Make yourself aware of your partner’s differences.
5. You need to understand that your partner can’t read your mind. Whenever you have anything pressing, speak your mind and heart out. It’s the best way to minimize on conflicts.
6. Understand that not everyone would behave like you. You probably have this mentality that you’re the best version, yes, it could be true, but have you also thought that you make mistakes as well.
7. Learn that everyone experiences things differently including love.
8. Always Humble yourself and accept an apology, be ready to also give one as well.
9. You need to understand that just because your partner doesn’t behave like you doesn’t mean your partner is wrong.
10. If you want your relationship to succeed, you have to understand that you need to accept your partner’s flaws.
So are you ready to do what it takes to make your relationship work?