Okay so first of all, it can be extremely awkward trying to figure out how to “talk dirty” to a man in a way that’s going to actually turn him on without feeling awkward, embarrassed or scared.
That’s where texting comes in.
When it comes to dirty talk and getting each other turned on, one of the safest ways to do it is through text messages.
Why? Well, for one, you don’t have to come up with something to say right in the heat of the moment. You can take your time and think about what you want to say to him.
Which is huge, honestly. So many women feel awkward trying to dirty talk in the moment. If you’ve ever felt nervous about freezing up and not knowing what to say, this is for you.
And let’s face it – guys LOVE it when a woman knows how to dirty talk. It’s a huge bad girl turn on that almost every guy shares.
Because when you’re texting with him, you’ve always got enough time to think about what you want to say. And when you have this list of 15 super sexy texts to send him, you’ll never have your mind go blank trying to think of a text again (or worry he won’t text back).
“Sexting 101”
Sending dirty text messages, just like dirty talk, is all about what feels natural. The truth is, it doesn’t really matter WHAT you say – as long as you’re turned on (and thinking about having a super-hot makeout with him, plus a whole lot more…)
That’s because he’s not waiting to hear magic words from you, or judging you on what you say – all he wants to know is that you’re turned on and thinking of him.
That’s it. That’s 100% of what’s going to make him feel turned on.
So you don’t have to worry about the exact words you use when you text him. Much more important is your mindset, and how you’re feeling when you’re texting him. If you’re turned on, you can’t go wrong.
Starting Things Off
However, if you’re trying to START a sexy text message conversation, you might feel a little bit awkward about it (2).
And that’s OK ! It’s hard to get the ball rolling, especially when you don’t know what kind of mood he’s in. But remember – if you’re feeling turned on, that’s 90% of the battle right there.
Try starting things off mysterious – you don’t want to say “Let’s have intercourse right now”, you want to say something that puts a sexy idea in his head. Like… something that makes him think of you without any clothes on.
Drawing a blank on how to do that? Here are 15 sexy texts to get you started.
15 Sexy Text Messages To Send Him
- I’m under so many blankets and I’m still cold… I guess I should put on some clothes…
- Guess what I’m wearing right now?
- I have something I have to admit – I’ve been thinking about you all day long…
- I’m bored and I’m lying in bed. Wanna play Simon Says with me?
- Tell me what you want to do with me after our date tonight.
- Imagine we’re alone in the bedroom together – then tell me what you’re thinking.
- I had a VERY naughty dream last night – you were definitely there…
- I’m so bored I’m checking out sex toys online…
- I can’t sleep – all I can think about is what we would be doing if you were here with me…
- I can’t stop thinking about some very dirty things… can you help me?
- If we were together, what would you want me to do to you?
- This new underwear feels soooo good against my skin…
- I’m typing this with one hand because my other hand is busy…
- I can’t stop sucking on lollypops today for some reason…
- I have a secret – I’m watching a very dirty video online right now…