It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a gold digger but then again it also means you love him mostly because he can provide.
Women are attracted to men who provide stability whether you like it or not men who have money can easily get women. There’s nothing wrong in wanting a man who is successful but there is everything wrong if that’s the only reason you’re actually with a man. Can you imagine being with him if he didn’t have money? If you cannot then it basically means you’re only with him for money.
1. You expect him to buy everything for you
If you expect him to always buy everything for you then you must think he is a bank. You over burden him with your demands even if you know his financial status is not exactly the best.
2. When he goes through a financial rough patch you become less attracted to him
Whenever he has been broke you become disinterested and get upset. You perhaps even get disgusted and cringe when you feel like he should do more to get money. This means you don’t love him you only want his money and what he can do for you.
3. You can’t stay indoors with him and enjoy his company
Because you would be happier if you were always out and not only with him. You can’t spend alone time with him because you genuinely don’t care about the quality time you spend with him. You only care about the money he spends on you and the experience he gives you.
4. You like his place because it’s convenient for you
You like the fact that he has WIFI, a swimming pool and that he orders in a lot. You use him because of what he has and if he didn’t have the materialistic aspect.
5. You have never offered to pay for anything
You can never imagine spending money on him as you don’t believe you should ever spend on a man even the one you’re with.
6. You think of him as an end to your financial problems
Another way you look at him as a bank is this obvious way. You no longer have your own career goals or ambitions simply because you imagine that he will solve all your future financial problems.
It is important to be with a man who is financially stable but at the same time he is not a bank. Money can come and go so if you’re there for his money then you’re in for a rude shock. A man who also knows you’re just there for money will eventually leave you.