There aren’t many worse feelings than letting yourself fall for a guy, then later regretting your decision to sleep with him.
Sex should be a fun and comfortable experience for both of you, so do yourself a favor and give yourself the best chance of having a good time.
However, there are some things you need to know before closing the deal.
Here are some safety checklist you check before you sleep with him to make sure you manage the expectations of your new love interest.
Make sure you have protected sex. The most common type of protected sex is with a condom and make sure there is no camera or camcorder policy.
Don’t let anyone trick you into spicing things up with a camera or recorder.
Get to know him first
Before you sleep with him you should make sure you can answer the following things about him.
He should be able to tell you the same about yourself and then you know you are on your way to becoming friends with this person.
Meet his friends
Have you met any of his friends yet and by meeting them I mean spent time with him and his friends in a social setting.
Observe what kind of friends he keeps don’t forget our friends are a reflection of who we are.
Have brain sex first
After a while when physical attraction starts to fade in your relationship you are going to have to have a lot of brain sex with your partner to make sure you remain on the same page.
So check out your intellectual compatibility before you jump into the sex with this person.
Know what you want
Decide upfront what you want from this “friend-relationship” and figure out what he wants.
Don’t ask him what he wants chances are that he will either tell you what you want to hear but may not mean or tell you what you don’t want to hear.