Men have different opinions concerning having sex with a virgin. Some believe that it is more enjoyable considering that the vagina is still tight and intact.
Those who have popped the cherry will agree that the first time is indeed tasking or even terrible.
Generally, people prefer having sex with someone who has some good bedroom skills and experience other than a virgin.
Not everyone is really obsessed about having sex with a virgin. Others simply feel that virginity is overrated.
In the past, virginity was held in high regard by African communities and there was some sort of dictatorship on when was the right time to engage in the act. This has changed over the years.
Here are some of the stereotypes about virgins. [especially later- in-life virgins]
They know nothing about sex
People assume that just because you have never slept with anyone, it equals you being clueless about the act.
They also believe that they are expected to teach you how to do it right. It is, however, important to note that sexual knowledge is too wide and not just about the act itself.
They are losers
In some places, virgins are stigmatized or made fun of for not being sexually active. People think that they are so dumb and backward.
For male virgins, people think that they are not good enough to seduce a woman.
They are religious
Not every virgin is religious but people always suspect that you won’t let anyone eat your cookie because of some restrictions from the book of the law.
It could be a reason for them having their virginity intact but it does not cut across every virgin you meet.
They are emotionally damaged
People always think that someone must have hurt you for you to be an ‘old-aging’ virgin.
They become clingy after their first experience
There is a notion that all virgins become clingy especially ladies. This is because they count their first time as a special moment and therefore will always want some sense of attachment with the man who sexed them.
Although a good number might have had these traits; there is a possibility that not all will.
They are innocent lambs
They expect you to be a good girl or boy who is so calm if you tell them you are a virgin.
They are boring
Just because they have no experience, there is an assumption that they have nothing exciting to offer in bed.
They could be good at foreplay but people do not count this as an effort sometimes as a result of perceiving them as boring.
They are weird
People speculation that there is something awkward about virgins and that is why no one has popped them yet.