When it comes to understanding men, know that a relationship is often like a dance, even as years go by. Sometimes you simply have to give him space to miss you. Otherwise, he can feel cornered and withdraw further which is not the reaction you want.
Men can be hard to understand sometimes. He gets a job abroad and avoids you, then when all goes wrong, he wants to come back.
Here is one confession from a confused lady that was sent on Nation FM’s facebook page:
Hi, I have this issue. I dated this guy a few years back two years in our relationship he got a job abroad and he had to leave with the promise of will get married once he came back. I was in love or maybe I was naive warefaa..so I waited till he came back only to break up with me three months later reason was we need space only to find out he had some other girl and they were exclusive I was broken for months that was early last year but enyewe ukiachwa achika I had to dust myself off and move on so by end of year I was soo over him .
So drama iko hapa!!!
This year January i learnt through a friend that he lost his job” its not that I was happy but Karma is a bitch his been out of the job for months August he calls me and asks if we would meet which I agreed but he didn’t have a clue that I knew he was jobless only to drop the bombshell am sorry bla bla we could try and work it out. I walked out of the conversation and left a few days ago his already gone to my Mum’s place ndio aniongeleshe.
So my dilemma is why should he go to that point as far as am concerned when he left he never consulted my Parents