To be a good husband, you ought to have certain characters (good ones), and to be a terrible husband means you have some bad characters that would never allow the love in your marriage grow.
Most times, women have been married to violent men usually as a result of lacking self-control.
Such a man can go to the extent of giving his wife inhumane treatments. A woman would never feel safe with such a man, and spending the rest of her life with him would mean living a life filled with terror.
Recently, a lady needed some assistance on a matter that she needed to brainstorm about. Check out the confession below:
Hey all.
There’s this guy I have been dating for 3years now, and last year I had visited them at their dad’s home and this guy an argument arose between him n his Dad and I witnessed him beat his Dad. He was taken to cell for 4days n the same Dad went to the cell paid 15000ksh to have his son.
I got scared and ran away and decided to quit the relationship completely.1 month later, I realized am pregnant for him. I told him n he agreed to be responsible. The baby was born n the guy said we name the baby after his Dad, am at my parent’s house and this guy says he will come to pick us as he has plans to marry me. My worry is if this guy can beat his dad, who am I?
And if I plan to tell him it’s over, will he be violent? How should I do it, so that he doesn’t become violent, for real I don’t see future with him. And the trauma he caused me after I saw him beating his Dad, is still fresh in my mind. please help me…God bless
Do you think it would be right for the lady to move in with him? Would she be safe