Musician Akothee has spoken up on how ladies are supposed to treat their white men while in a relationship.
The Abebo hitmaker has two wazungu baby daddies, Markus and Dominique, hence has a great experience on how they need to be treated in love affairs.
Her post comes just hours after the body of missing Dutch tycoon Tob Cohen, who was married to a Kenyan woman, was found in a septic tank months after disappearing. He is said to have been gruesomely murdered by unpathetic people, his wife being the first suspect.
Taking to social media Akothee said that despite having separated with her baby daddies, she still meets and even shares meals with them together with their children.
“We still share the same table and children, we still talk and laugh, even with this one who takes me to court daily, I cry and a day later I call him again, papa how are you ?” she said.
“Is everything okay, papa why are you doing this to us? then he hurt me again, and the episode continues, a battle for over 12 years and it has never occurred to me to wish him death!”
She further said that she has learned to love them even after parting ways either being hurt or not because it’s better to quit than to remain in a toxic relationship. She advised ladies to walk away if things fail to workout than killing their men.
” I can only sleep in one bed at a time if the relationship is toxic for me, I find it easy to walk away and find someone else, what happiness will I gain if I exit someone from this world? Nothing,” she said.
Akothee went ahead and shared some pointers which might help Kenyan ladies when it comes to issues with relationships.
1. I can never fight over a man, I have too many options
2. I can never stick to a toxic relationship, I have a life
3. I can never depend on a man to pay my bills, it is diminishing and takes away my freedom
4. I have a brain of my own, to do what pleases me, maybe I am too mature
5.nobody tells me what to do if they haven’t contributed in my life
6. Yes I am a woman I deserve to be loved and love back, but I can’t force myself on what’s not working
Its all about me, not you
