Change is inevitable, but it cannot be forced. And living waiting for your partner to change is stupid. Love embraces imperfections. Let our partner not be perfect, let us love her with all her imperfections. In order to account, he or she will have to do the same with us, and in any case, love is not mutual, it is not love.
So stop pursuing and manipulating your partner when they don’t meet your expectations. Love is like a butterfly: no matter how hard we chase it, we will not catch it. When we are focused on our things is when love rests quietly on us. Do what you like to do and love will follow you.
It is on that note that a fellow Kenyan lady has aired how men would do better and their problems capsize, if they become disciplined on women, sometimes on the liquor.
A Man who has disciplined himself over women has solved half of his problems. FACT💯💯💯
— Sibba (@AtmSira) July 24, 2019
Ladies, do you agree that we might be the problem that men have probably been trying to deal with for the longest time? But men, are we, really?
I love how women themselves know that they are a problem. Big up y’all
— Getting Old (@chueu_molepo) July 24, 2019
Maybe women are not the only thing men should avoid.
If a man can be disciplined on Alcohol and woman… His won in Life👏
— Iam_liberated💎 (@Nomthandazo_D) July 24, 2019
Below were more reactions on whether a man can be termed disciplined when he learns to have self-control on women.
Delete fornication and alcohol from your life and 65% of your generational, financial and social issues are gone for ever
— Dotunes Olufemi (@Somidotun7) July 24, 2019
Hmm. Please aunty i have a question
What are the things to discipline one self over women ?— GP ORIZ (@TolzyTrillionz) July 24, 2019