When it comes to infidelity, two related excuses will be given. Most times, partners cheat because of problems in their relationship which is because something is just not there anymore, it might be the initial passion that has faded, or partners now feel lonely or both partners have found someone who treats them better or who appreciates them more than their current significant other.
We never forsee being cheated on, but it’s best that if you notice any foul play in your relationship especially when it becomes alarming, just do the needful. In reality, there are still some sweet guys out there, that can’t wait to sweep you off your feet. You deserve a better treat. So if your guy falls in any of the following characters, just know it is time:
The one who feels you are cheating when you talk to other men
If he keeps checking your call log and messages and wants to know the slightest detail of your life event, it’s a sign, he might be a cheater. There is a likeliness that he is not free of the said act. He could be doing the same thing and the pictures you are doing so too, just because he is guilty. So if you notice he is a monitoring spirit, then he might be scared you are fooling him, just as he is, or distracting you from knowing that his hands are dented.
The guy going out with you because you are beautiful
You see for this guy winning you was a target or conquest for him than actual love. No, that he already has you, he no longer cares! If he has suddenly changed and no longer does things that buy your laughter, then he is probably buying someone else laughter. You have turned into nothing more than conquered territory. When he is no longer concerned about your happiness, please don’t stick around because he might actually be cheating.
The guy who appears closer to your girlfriends than you
If you barely keep in touch with your girlfriend and as such know little about the latest details in her life, while he knows much about her, could he be helping you to keep in touch with your friend? And moments when you can’t exactly say where your best friend was last night and what she did, but your man somehow is aware of the exact thing she did and every last detail. That should already act as a red flag, it’s time you pay attention to where he is going and who he is seeing.
The one who won’t give up his ‘harmless flirting
This kind of guy lets people know he is in a relationship, but he never stops going after other girls. If he’s flirting away with no respect for you, you’re probably dating the wrong kind of guy. It is possible he is no longer happy with you but don’t know how to tell you off because many people already know about the two of you. He is only being with you because you two have come a long way and since he is not happy in the relationship anymore, he finds it elsewhere while letting you answer his.
The guy who cheated and boasts about it
You felt sorry for what he did and you got convinced that things would be different this time. Unfortunately, though your love can’t change a person and make them what they are not. Habitual cheaters will remain that way, no matter what you do. If he continues to be boastful of his actions, then my lady, you are fighting a lost cause. These boyfriends can never be faithful.