GURL! You know damn well you do not have any more feelings towards that boy other than the physical one…. nothing beyond the bedroom I mean. You know it, He probably knows it, Everyone knows it, don’t deny it.
Does your attraction go beyond just the physical chemistry? do you have both an emotional and mental connection? Can you see each other and it not being about wanting to sleep with one another? or does every meet up you have, end with a bang?
Is it lust?
It’s about his looks and physical shape, this is also the same for him when it comes to you too.
You’re both more interested in having sex, but not so much on having conversations.
You’d rather catch flights than feelings.
It’s just sex, cuddles and breakfast in the morning is a complication neither of you is invested in.
You are more lovers than friends.
Is it love?
You want to spend quality time together other than sex.
You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.
You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other happy.
The both of you are intentional and set out to motivate each other too.
You hope that one day you will meet his or her family and friends.
If he is lust but you want love, then let me just ask you what are you doing to yourself? Be wise sis, you will find yourself in a trap! If it’s love then go for it, and trust that what you’re building will be magical and it will be just like as you want it to be and more.