It is very important to maintain both mental and emotional health so as to make the most of your abilities in various fields.
1. SOCIAL STRATEGIES
We know that people who are connected to others tend to have better mental health so:
- Stay in touch with friends and family – particularly in those early weeks of coming to university if you have left home to study.
- Make contact with other people in your course. Suggest possible activities such as having a coffee together or going for a walk at lunchtime and allow yourself to accept offers of activities that others suggest.
- Remember to speak to someone from student support services (like the Counselling Centre) for help if you are feeling socially isolated.
2. PHYSICAL STRATEGIES
Taking care of your body also helps your mind to work better so:
- Get into a good sleep routine
- Make sure you get regular exercise
- Eat a good diet
- Attend to illness as soon as you notice yourself not feeling well
- Avoid activities that you know are problematic or that could become a problem such as gambling, excessive use of alcohol, using drugs and letting the internet or computer games steal time from you.
- If there is a problem, talk to a friend or someone at the student counselling service, or your doctor.
3. Emotional Strategies
Strong emotions will always arise at some times during our lives. Having ways to help manage these so we can think as clearly as possible is a good idea. So:
- Learn breathing exercises, meditation or being in the present (mindfulness). Nearly all our anxiety is about something in the past or future.
- Use distractions such as going for a walk, listening to music or (if you are stuck in a lecture) count the bricks on the wall! Or you may find ‘channeling’ your feelings helpful e.g. if you are angry about something go for a run or sing loudly or try writing your feelings down.
- If you continue to be distressed make sure you see a counsellor at your student counselling service.
4. Cognitive Strategies
How you think about things is important in maintaining top mental and emotional health. Our thoughts and emotions are linked. So:
- Remind yourself of your skills and abilities.
- Avoid catastrophic thinking e.g. instead of “it’s a disaster that I got that mark”, think “it is unfortunate that I got that mark, what can I do about it”.
- Avoid absolute thinking e.g. instead of thinking “I always mess things up” think “I didn’t do so well that time, what can I do to improve”.
- Avoid comparing yourself with others. You usually end up feeling bad about yourself.
- If you are having troubles talk to someone at the student counselling service.
5. Motivation Strategies
We all lose our motivation for our study from time to time. So:
- Visualize success. Imagine yourself getting your degree, being presented with your course certificate, or going out to celebrate – find an image that shows your success and keep that image in your minds-eye or find an object to represent success.
- Remind yourself of why you are here and what you hoped for when you started your course.
- Set small, specific, realistic goals.
- Keep good work practices – balance work with fun.
- Talk to others about what you are doing.
- Ask for help from your teachers, or the student counselling service at your school, college or university.