This Month as we talk about Menstrual Hygiene, I took it upon myself to highlight just one of the few things that deal with Lady Parts… just from a completely differnt perspective.
This month we are throwing out poorly written BDSM literature for actual helpful information.
First of all, BDSM is an acronym sis (I know, shocker!). It stands for Bondage/Discipline Domination/Submission Sadism/Masochism. It has a variety of sexual activities that range from role-playing, dominance and submission, restraints and a variety of other sexual behaviours. There is also a dominant and submissive partner.
So you’ve read Fifty Shades of Grey and you want someone to spit in your mouth, and you want to be chocked and you think of yourself as some sort of sex savant. Shocker, but you’re not, and you have been doing it wrong if you don’t know these two random yet essential facts for the lifestyle.
1. It’s not always about sex
This is the biggest myth about BDSM out there, and it’s not completely true. While BDSM is heavily rooted in sexual pleasure and debauchery, it’s mainly about control or lack thereof. Most people who identify with being the dominant need to control their partner’s pleasure, pain and endurance while their submissive counterpart craves to be controlled in various aspects of their lives
2. Aftercare is important
This is an important part of the lifestyle that usually gets overlooked by amateurs. Most scenes are really emotional and intense for both parties and aftercare is where you and your partner, have a cuddle and discuss your session.
If you’re looking to get into this month and the rest of the year with a bang (See you what I did there? ) then BDSM is definitely for you. Tell us in the comments what else you want to try in the bedroom this year? Speaking of things that you should try.