Why Ben Pol won’t leave heiress Anerlisa Muigai in six months after the proposal, like her two previous husbands-to-be

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As it turns out, Ben Pol isn’t the first man to propose to Kenya’s wealthiest heiress Anerlisa Muigai. She has been smitten before and even professed how ‘good things come to those who wait’ referring to her previous lovers. So the magical proposal at the beach does raise some eyebrows.

For one, Anerlisa has in the past been very vocal about how she always makes the wrong choices where men are concerned. She has been extremely unlucky in love, to say the least!

What’s worse is her previous ‘heavily’ public relationships all ended when wedding plans were in the pipeline. When celebrating her previous engagement, she opened up about her insecurities thinking her body and weight were the hinderance.

Back in January 2017, the Keroche heiress was all set to marry her longtime boyfriend of five years Stephen but they broke up six months after the engagement. On announcing her engagement, these were her exact words:

‘’ENGAGED!!! Waiting is a sign of true love and patience. Anyone can say “I love you ” but not everyone can wait and prove it’s true. 

After 5 years I have been engaged by the only person I wished to spend my life with. 
When I was a young girl I used to think that beauty and how I looked physically is what made a man marry a woman. Wrong!!! It’s about taking care and respecting him. 

Call me old school but I am one of those girls who cook every day and iron clothes every morning. Not that I can’t get anyone to do it, I feel more of a woman doing them. I have come across ladies who won’t go to the kitchen because they do not want to spoil their nails. 

Commitment takes a lot of sacrifice and patience. The way you maintain and make yourself look should all be a bonus. 

You can also never rush a man into marrying you. I used to wonder why he was taking so long to propose yet I thought I had everything he needed but trust me there is something deeper a man look for in a woman. Patience is a virtue.’’ 

Anerlisa Muigai with her ex Stephen

Then came Don, her relationship with Don started off on the wrong foot after a woman called Joy Njokie accused her of being a husband snatcher. And six months into their relationship disaster struck.

Anerlisa Muigai with her ex Don

Her first relationship was eight years ago with actor and former Straight Up host, Ian Mugoya. Anerlisa has never revealed why they broke up. 

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The rich girl and entrepreneur is now completely smitten with Bongo singer Ben Pol. The singer’s love is literally making the Keroche heiress speak in tongues.

But what makes Ben Pol different? What guarantees the heiress that this one isn’t just trapping her like the rest?

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For one, he seems like a keeper because despite being the target of many Kenyan women, the singer with many fans has remained loyal to Anerlisa since hooking up, always supporting her in her ventures and travelling with her everywhere.

More importantly, not only does he stay loyal, but he is not afraid to show off his woman, online and offline. She, however, continues to contradict herself as she once congratulated ladies who manage to keep their men private calling it the wisest thing.

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Ben Pol seems like her soulmate also because of how he showers the heiress with expensive gifts, making certain to show her and the world that he is not only milking her for her wealth. This is especially important for any man dating a woman who comes from a higher social status.

When news of their relationship leaked, Ben Pol’s ex came out saying he likes women who will provide for him. In fact, she referred to him as a Ben 10. The singer continuously proves naysayers wrong with his most recent stunt being his surprise easter gift of a Samsung Galaxy S10+ phone costing Ksh.100,000. To this she appreciated calling him a ‘Real Man’. So money does count even for one of the wealthiest women in Kenya. Take notes boys.

You can also tell Ben Pol meticulously planned for the destination surprise proposal. The Huge rock Anerlisa now carries on her finger is a clear indication that it wasn’t cheap. Ben Paul is clearly ticking all the boxes.

It is this writer’s sincere hope that the beautiful Anerlisa has finally found the love she so desperately seeks. And that she can finally finalise on wedding planning and walk down the aisle. It might be too early to tell though, as this is usually when disaster brews. But with a rumored baby on the way, Kenyans can only hope for a happy ever after for the handsome couple.

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It’s beautiful to see her never giving up on love, despite the number of times she’s gotten her heart broken. She is a testament to everyone that we should always give love one more chance, because love does make the world go round.

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