The New Year came with different resolutions for every Kenyan Lady, most of whom have had these resolutions for the last 10+ years, and as usual involving Men.
This is it Ladies. The time has come for you to shine as four months down the line, you have just realized that that Kenyan man is not really doing things for you. It’s okay; it gets to the best of us.
Here we are again wondering what kind of baggage we need to get rid off as we are almost starting a new month and almost halfway into the year, and for starters, we need to get rid of all the trash men in our lives. These types of Kenyan men should not be seen in for the rest of 2019 onwards.
1. The one who only calls you for sex
Tell this man to stay away, far far away from you. In this day and age, you’re a grown woman who is looking for a man who will see you for who you really are. You will stop being dickmatized and remember that sex will not make you feel loved or treasured. Close your legs and find the right one.
2. The one who is always cheating on you
You will realize that a man who always cheats on you will not stop in 2019. He will not change because year after year you accept the new women he brings with him. Refuse to be number one or two and meet a man who will only treat you as the only one.
3. The baby daddies who are never there
These are the ones who are in and out of your child’s life. It’s emotionally tiring for you and your child. He knows he can walk in and out of your life, in 2019 you can delete his number. Just because he was a sperm donor doesn’t mean he will be a father in 2019.
4. The one who is abusive
He probably hits you, talks to your badly, manipulates you and makes you feel like crap. In 2019, you will only focus on positive energy, you will only love the people who love you and call the people who call you. Stop chasing men that don’t grow up.
5. The one who takes you for granted
This one is used to you, he will do everything I have mentioned on this list and will still treat you like an animal. Keep prospering into 2019 without fear and understand that you would rather be alone than with a man who doesn’t love you.
You can cut him off even today if you like but it’s not an easy process. You need to be sure of yourself, take time to internalize and if you’re sure that you will end it with this man then start prepping yourself before January 1st hits.