The pain of being a celeb in Kenya

It is interesting how the attention of Kenyans were drawn away from the pressing issues surrounding the country to take note of details shared on social media.Those recognized become instant celebrities and get a lot of attention including recognition from top companies in Kenya or even the state.

Paul Kimotho now Known as ‘Githeri Man’

Up to the 8th of August 2O17, Paul Kimotho(Githeri Man) was just an ordinary man who out of impatience to beat the election queue decided to carry along githeri in a plastic bag for his breakfast.

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A photojournalist captured him and the photo immediately went viral on social media.  Then out of nowhere people came up and donated all manner of stuffs including designer suits to him and Kimotho became a celebrity overnight. In the recent past he has been invited to a number of meetings—political rallies.

‘Githeri Man’ in a designer suit
Githeri Man receiving a piece of land

The Ksh.100 wedding: Earlier on a couple were feted for being frugal during their wedding ceremony, they spent just one hundred shillings at a church officiated nuptials in Kasarani. Wilson Wanjohi and Anne Muhonja were later gifted with a 3.5 million shillings repeat wedding among other pecuniary benefits. They have since acquired a celebrity status as the media took up the story.

The Ksh. 100 Wedding
Their geordgeous wedding funded by well wishers

The’ chokoraa’ couple  awed the public with their transformation that has certainly pushed the stereotypes associated with the city’s ‘chokoraa’ one click at a time. Virginia met Blackie at Central Park where their friendship blossomed and bloomed at Majengo slums over two years ago and have been together ever since.

Muchiri Frames , photo shoot company, the brainchild behind the shoot said that they have received immense response from the public after they did the photoshoot.

The couple receiving a holiday package

Unfortunately,after a number of holiday packages and endorsments here and there,the couple is back on the streets.

The Chokora cuople complaining

Was it out of desperation that Kimotho ended up with githeri in a polling station?  In this other case, could it be that the couple had other priorities and that is why they spent so little on their wedding?

Could the ‘Chokoraa couple refuse the offers and just take money to better their future? By others responding the way they did does it mean that having githeri in our diet is demeaning? Or does it mean that having low-key wedding points to a situation of deprivation?

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Githeri Man In Rehab

What may not go into the media in relation to the three cases is the feeling of frustration that arises from the contradictions in the lives of these socially conditioned celebs. Socially conditioned because they did almost nothing to acquire their new status.

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Githeri Man in Rehab

They didn’t work their way up. Consequently, they may not be prepared to absorb the shocks that come with celebrity. They don’t have social support mechanisms neither do they have inherent capacities to maintain the class they have suddenly found themselves in.

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Most critical of all, they may not be able to fulfill the expectations that people will begin to have about them. Ultimately, their situation might end up worse than it initially was. Many celebs have suffered depression because they were not able to manage the expectations that their fans had about them.

The chokoraa couple

This is not to castigate philanthropy, especially in view of the recent polls that rated Kenyans as some of the most philanthropic people in the world. Instead, it should provide a window into social psychology and create an understanding on issues surrounding human motivation, status, class, social support, and personality development, among other issues.

Most importantly, people should understand that human dignity is not just about designer suits, cars, grand weddings or such other symbols of wealth so that a rush towards such things happens when a member of a community seems disadvantaged.

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To avoid the pain of being a celeb the likes of Kimotho or Wanjohi must be mentored and counseled on how to cope in their newly acquired status, as well as getting trained on what they need to do in order to maintain their positions.

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