Ladies, this is why you need not be desperate for love

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The 21st century view of a relationship is a whole different game with the emergence of ‘Kevo’, ‘Brayo’, and ‘fisilet‘.

Being in a healthy relationship in 2019 is an extreme sport for young lovers who are trying to build a future.

A relationship is a good thing when both parties enjoy.

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On the other hand, being single these days has become a stigma. Women often fear loneliness and in many instances, they act so ‘cheap’ only to get rid of boredom and loneliness.

Ladies beware! Men can sense desperation in a lady.

So ladies listen keenly if you want to be worth gold in your relationships. Its all about packaging yourself.

Demonstration of an open book

Don’t give out too much. Focus. Don’t be an open book for him. Not everyone sees things as it seems. He does not have to know every single detail in your life even if you think he is the potential one. Others ‘husonga mbele kama injili‘ when you break up.


Pursue your interest and your self-growth and it will communicate a  certain type of confidence that will be quite hard to ignore. This will awaken your potential’s urge to have you by his side forever.

Don’t follow the social media couples an think your life is not interesting. People hide too much and show little ‘interesting’ in social media platforms.

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