What is the most important quality in Marriage?

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When most people are asked about what is important in marriage, we expect responses like ‘good communication,’ ‘frequent sex,’ or even ‘shared interests.’

Some couples also say that generosity and kindness as the most important qualities in marriage.

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Are they?

Here are some of the most important things you should know about generosity, especially if you’re looking to apply it to your relationship:

Generosity helps your sex life.

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Generosity forms the foundation of a good and healthy sex life.

Foreplay, cuddling or even making out begin with intimacy. Couples are turned on by doing what they like rather than what we think they should like.

Letting our partner know when we are pleased, appreciating their efforts, and being willing to hear and explore their fantasies adds richness to our relationships.

You can learn how to be Generous

People are programmed to have a more generous nature than others.

Generosity is like a muscle. You can give yourself a kind of “workout.” You start at the gym without much capacity to lift even a few pounds, but over time you build muscle strength.

Generosity is the same. It may feel strange and even counterintuitive, but if you want to be generous and act as though you are, you can will yourself to get better at it.

Being generous is not about self-sacrifice

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Giving until it hurts or trying to buy affection does not develop a healthy relationship. True generosity is also not doing things to make yourself feel smug, superior, or to ease guilt.

It does not take the place of caring for yourself or expecting your partner to do his or her part. 

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