Slender or Thick the Choice is entirely yours

A twitter debate is never far from the horizon ,something sparks up  and twitter takes it to a whole different level.This just following the ten year challenge that sent twitter, instagram and any social platform you could post on into a frenzy a recent war on our socials platforms mostly twitter has risen on the preference between you guessed it ,ladies , specifically in regards to their physique, whether they are shaped like a peach , a 300 ml coca cola bottle, petite like all out blessed that makes tongues wag while they pass by.

Well if you do a survey in Kenya with views from Men and a different one from Women , you will get totally  contrasting feedback. The African culture has painted the picture of a beautiful African woman to be obedient, well mannered,excellent in cooking, fertile and the sum of it all this is her being big or large in size or as they say’She has some meat on her’.

Our fathers are different in their tastes and that is why they married our mothers out of the love they had for each other. The say they eye will love to much of what it sees but it will never be enough but it is different for the heart, the heart can love one person entirely.

Models from magazines had over time stamped the idea of beauty as slender ladies and that was viewed as the ideal body , but the culture has seen its changes with the entry of plus size models  as they call them doing runways, commercial advertising, movies and underwear modelling.What we tell our mind is good , is what we will view as good and that is why you find people tastes entirely different in both genders.Some ladies  still not sure of where they lie.

 

When you ask men,young lads on what they would prefer in regards to a woman’s physique , you may be left with laughter, some reasons may be purely on appearance and some may be technical ( in terms of applications in bedroom matters).

My taste is entirely if the woman or lady in question is comfortable in her own skin and if she is , it just adds to the list of  the things I like about her.When you fall in love,you love the person entirely and telling them to change so as for them to look a certain way because you find that way now appealing is not right. Love your mothers, sisters, aunts, friends, girlfriend, fiancées, wives and each day just give them that assurance that they look good , you love them as they are and you would never ask for more than that .

 

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