Is it ever ok to give your partner a curfew if they go out without you?
Melissa RiveraHe should come home as soon as those beers make him horny
Going out with your partner is fun but it is also important to agree that sometimes one would want to have some alone time or go out with other friends.
Although some would be comfortable to let their partner go out on their own, some people have insecurity or trust issues that makes you uncomfortable to let your lover go places alone.
Will he/she cheat, will my lover flirt with another? These might be the questions that make you so afraid to allow your partner to have their alone moments.
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Some tweeps agree that curfews are important saying that there has to be limits and boundaries to any partners who have decided to give their commitment to a relationship.
Yes, absolutely! My wife can have a nice late night out anytime she wants, but if she’s not home by sunrise then it’s over between us. Especially since we are vampires and we need to be in our coffins by then or we burst into flame.
Have a look at what netizens think on whether to have curfews for partners or not.
I think maybe not a curfew, but be considerate of the other persons feelings… you’re not single anymore, so don’t act like it
Absolutely not they are their own person, anyone who says otherwise is insane
No. We have free Will. Along with that comes respect, and they should have enough respect to make it a reasonable time.
No. A healthy relationship is a co-equal partnership. Curfew is a power play or a position of authority. That’s not healthy. Open and honest dialogue like “What time do you think you’ll be home?” Is fine.
No curfew , but being responsible in the relationship is key to longevity. So I always come home at a decent time .
Using the word curfew makes it sound like we are kids again. Maybe if we take away that word then we are open to having a conversation and we are both clear on what time is appropriate to be back home. It also depends on who they are hanging out with and how often it happens.
Gregory Gonabe @GregoryGonabe
No you shouldn’t control someone else. There has to be trust in the relationship.