The latest case of two gospel musicians linked with infecting a lady with herpes has made me look into why men love multiple s8x with more than one woman at one time. To understand keep reading and to match the dots in a mans way of thinking.
If one hot woman in your bed is good, then two hot women is even better, right?
Most men like threesomes in the same way as most people like two scoops of ice-cream.
It will come as no surprise to any of you who have significant experience interacting with guys, that as a rule, we think about s8x frequently. Incessantly, almost constantly, whether we are asleep or awake. And in order to keep things always fresh and interesting, we fuel our s8xual mental meanderings with images so profoundly decadent, they could make a p8rn star blush.
That is not to say that we would actually participate in these episodes of lurid lewdness and raucous ribaldry if we had the opportunity in real life. No, in many cases our fantasies are most satisfying because they are something we can only dream about without the pressure of having to make them real.
And why is this? Because the “us” that exists in our fantasies is an idealization of who we’d like to be if we had limitless stamina, sensational athleticism, incredible flexibility and an ever-erect member of mythic proportions. But as you know, sadly, most of us fall short (no pun intended) in many of these areas. So living out our fantasies is, therefore, an impossible dream.
That being said, there is one fantasy that most men believe they can actually live out given the right set of circumstances, an open-minded and accepting partner, and substantial amounts of high-octane libations.
And while some guys might consider a threesome with a woman and another man to be exciting, most men desire a more “traditional” woman-man-woman arrangement, making us the “meat” in this s*xual sandwich.
But why do men like threesomes and why is it that this is the go-to s3xual “flight of fancy” of most red-blooded males? Frankly, I’m not sure there has been extensive research on this subject, or if scholarly works addressing this are available for perusal.
What I do know is that for men, having simultaneous, sexual relations with two women at once is an example of “more is more.” In other words, s3x with one woman is good and with more than one woman is better.
Why? First, there are more of our favorite parts to play with: More lips to kiss, more breasts to caress, more vuginas to… well, you get the point.
Second, we kind of feel like we’ve won the lottery. Normally, we have to move heaven and Earth to get one woman to be intimate with us. Now, we have two hot women (in reality they may not always be hot, but in our imaginations, they’re smokin’) rubbing and kissing on us and using us as their s3x toy. What could be better than that?
And third, there is always a chance (in our naughty minds, anyway) that any time you get naked girls together in close proximity, they may start getting up-close-and-personal with each other (preferably, while we’re recovering from our previous carnal cavorting) and us guys get to have a bird’s-eye view.