Ok so my marriage is a bit odd, we seperated for a while last year and when he came home he wanted an open marriage, I said no at first but then he made me feel like I had no choice, open marriage or divorce, and since I didn’t want to divorce him I said ok.
Anyway, it was only supposed to be for 3months just to try it out, but of course his girlfriend got pregnant in that time so now I don’t feel like I can pull the plug on the whole thing even though I want to. So my question is, how do I handle this, I don’t really know where I stand in the childs life, yes I’m married to her father but I hate her mother for getting pregnant on purpose. I know its not the baby’s fault but I just don’t know if I can seperate the two, baby from mom. Is there anyone out there that maybe isn’t in the exact situation but something close that could give me advise on how they handle it. I want to be a part of this part of my husbands life, I just don’t know how to do it. Any help is appriciated, thanks.