Could I have sacrificed love because of a mere phone call? Please help me

Image result for love and relationships ghanaI’m am Joyce , 24 years old. Currently, I work for a big insurance firm so financially, I’m doing well.

Early this year, I met Peter who became my friend and later, we started dating. He has all the qualities that I have ever desired in a man. After one month of dating, someone one called me claiming to be Peter’s wife and that I should leave him alone. I went ahead and approached Peter to explain to me who this lady was or is to him since he had not told me anything about her. But he was not ready to open up to me. He would even end up getting mad at me whenever I demanded for an explanation.

Since he was not willing to be honest with me, I ended up concluding that he is married, but when I went to visit him in his home, I didn’t see any signs of a marriage. He has been calling me severally such that there is a day he called me 11 times but I had decided never to pick his calls. I truly loved him and up to know, I am still healing . Did I make the right decision? And recently, I have only been attracting married men. Please help me.

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Hi

I definitely sense your apprehension and lack of desire to move on with enthusiasm in this relationship. The fact that another woman got your number and called you and possibly had a few more details is not enough to make one scared. Relationships are about total trust and commitment. Such a call from a stranger has a way of bursting the bubble.

There is no easy answer here. I can see that you visited the gentleman’s home and found no wife of his there. The lingering doubt in you has to do with the fact that, there could still be truth in that phone call. Could he have made sure that she was not home? I can’t tell, but you have every ability to check the trustworthiness of his character.

Please leave a message for Joyce…

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