There is a ticking time bomb in Kenya. The number of single mothers continue to grow on a daily basis. But why? Recently, a friend of mine attributed these to the fact that there are no serious men out there to marry these women. How true is this?
It might be true that the number of mature men ready to settle down are very few. But women are also doing themselves more damage than good. As a woman how do you package yourself? The type of men you attract is directly related to your image. If you want to attract a mature man, then you should carry yourself in the following ways:
1. Grown men desire a woman with her own dreams, not one who is tagging along and all her life revolves around him. A woman who is pursuing her own goals will also respect his goals and will not be overly possessive or jealous of other women.
2. Grown men desire a woman who can correct him with love. One who will tell him “Honey, I don’t think that is right”. If the man is not grown, he will not like her correction. Grown know they have room for improvement and like it when the woman is looking out for him.
3. Grown men desire a woman who can speak her mind about her issues not one who is hurting inside, despising the man in silence and is pretending to be happy. When you speak it, you two can solve it.
4. Grown men desire a woman who is conversational, one who says more than one word answers, not one who is always waiting for the man to begin and carry the conversation. He wants a friend in the woman he loves to laugh with and be free with.