Have you ever wondered wondered why Jacque Maribe chose Jowie, a murder suspect and not Itumbi a state house employee. Have you also asked yourself since Itumbi has not been able to get a girlfriend since breaking up with Maribe?
There is a difference between moving on and letting go. Itumbi has done non of that, and he is now desperately hoping that Jacque will take him back.
But come to think of it, there are so many Itumbis out there. Guys who have everything in life, power, position and money but not love. People who despite their position are lonely as fuck.
A you in the group of these lonely group of men. Well, there is definitely, a reason why girls don’t like you.
1. Full of negative energy
There are men who will never see the goodness in anything. If you’ve got a negative attitude, girls will feel that negativity when they’re around you.
They don’t want to hang out with someone that puts them in an awful mood. She’d rather find someone who can boost her spirits.
2. Too confident
Yes, confidence is essential but when it is too much, it can easily pass as arrogance. Girls want to feel noticed and appreciated.
If you’re too focused on how great you are to take the time to see how great she is, she won’t be sticking around too long.
3. Self-pity
Men generally are wired to be the problem solvers. If you play the ‘victim’ card too much, she might get the vibe that you are not a man enough and therefore she would not want to be around a man who can’t be there for her emotionally.
4. Making fun of her friends
Unlike boys, girls value their friendship so much. In fact, if she has a friend who she always calls ‘my love’ or those sweet names they often call each other chances are that particular friend is the one who is running the relationship.
5. Appearance
When a girl checks a guy out there’s a lot more going on. She’ll notice his face and body, but what matters even more than physical features is how he presents himself.
Is he well groomed? Does he look like he’s got his stuff together? Does he care about the way he presents himself to the world?