Victoria Kimani: I have never had a sugar daddy

PHOTO/COURTESY

Why is it so easy for people to link the success of women to either having a sugar daddy or a sponsor?

There so many ladies making it as a result of their own hard work and sometimes it is pretty annoying for people to think that your achievements must have strings to sponsors.

This is my opinion in regard to how people are quick to judge by pouncing with insensitive comments. Not blaming those behind such comments but sometimes you might as well consider how you make people feel.

These might be the exact sentiments of Singer Victoria Kimani  who felt entitled to speak on the plight of women after blogger Cyprian Nyakundi attacked her and publicly called her inappropriate  names.

PHOTO/COURTESY

Cyprian Nyakundi in a long post questioned why Victoria Kimani is still childless and wasting her youth spending time with Singer Akothee.

He even went ahead to refer to Victoria Kimani as a ‘Prostitute of Nigerian Men’

Singer Victoria Kimani had kept mute after all this rant until hours ago when she reacted on a long post demanding to be respected and asking other men to be respectful to women in general.

Victoria Kimani said that she is not going to be all savage but only passed a message on how women go through challenges with the perception people have of them.

Kimani also rubbished the claims by the controversial blogger Cyprian Nyakundi saying that she has never had a sugar daddy and can never condemn those who have. Adding that she has been working hard in her music career to get where she is today.

via GIPHY

The Singer said that Nyakundi’s words were heartless and irritating and a way of teaching the society to disrespect women which is so wrong.

Kimani also gave the bible story to weigh in over her remarks. She said that even when people wanted to stone a prostitute, Jesus asked whoever had no sin to go ahead”

In her long post the artist lectured the blogger with her kind educative words leaving the storm that has been dominating for days to be calmed.

What is contributing to the perception that all women success is linked to sponsors?

 

View this post on Instagram

 

Nitakua mwanamke wa aina gani kama kama sita ongea mambo yanayo tuumiza sisi kisaikolojia,kiroho na kimwili.Mtazamo wa jamii yetu kwa wanawake unahitaji kubadilika. Kuanzia wauguzi wakike, wafanyi kazi wa nyumbani, waalimu, wafanyi biashara, wanasiasa, waburudishaji, wamiliki wa biashara, matajiri wanawake, maskini wanawake, wamama, madada.. watoto wakike, na hata mtoto wa kike akiwa tumboni mwa mamake….. Kulingana na watu wachache wenye akili finyu, wanawake wote wako sawa!! Mbona usinihukumu kwa matunda ya kazi yangu, au kwa mienendo ninayo-ionyesha katika Maisha ya kila siku? Mbona usinihukumi kwa hilo badala ya kunihukumu kwa maovu?? Hata mwenyezi mungu, ambaye mwanawe Yesu Christo, aliwaambia wanaume waliotaka kumtupia yule mwanamke Malaya mawe , ya kwamba; “asiye na dhambi, miongoni mwao, awe wa kwanza kutupa jiwe! Athari za kutowaheshimu, wanawake tunaowajua, na tusiowajua, ni kwamba tunaifundisha jamii, nama ya kuwachukulia dada zaka, na mamako! Sitatukana family yako, wala watu unaowapenda, kwa sababu, nina uhakika unafahamu uchungu wake! Je, unafahamu kwamba, mimi ni mtoto wa mtu, dadake mtu, na kama kioo cha jamii, kuna wanawake wengi, ambao, wananiangalia kama kielelezo kwao? Natumia muziki wangu kuhamasisha mabadiliko katika kizazi changu na kizazi kinachokuja. Mashairi yangu, yanawapa wanawake motisha, na naongelea chnagamoto tunazopitia Maisha yetu kama wanawake. Dhana uliyoileta kwetu, ni za kiubaguzi kwa wanawake, ni za kukera, na kutia kichefu chefu, na zinavunja moyo. Nimeongea katika jukwaa la umoja wa mataifa (United Nations) kuhusu umuhimu wa wanawake kua na sauti katika jamii yetu. Na fanya kazi kwa bidi, sijawahi kuwa na sugar dady, na siwahukumu wanaofanya hivo. DNaomba, nafunga , na naweka nguvu zangu zote katika muziki wangu, na napenda ninachokifanya. Siko hapa kukudhalilisha, bali niko hapa kukuinua. Cyprian Nyakundi Sikuwahi kukujua, mpaka uliponitaja mimi na mmoja wa marafiki zangu wa karibu Akothee. Lakini nafurahi kujuana na wewe mtandaoni. Kunijua, ni kunipenda, na pia ni kuniheshimu mimi, na juhudi zangu za kimaisha. Namtakia kila anayesoma huu ujumbe Amani na Furaha! #NOTFORSALE VIDEO OUT TOMORROW ! Respect the Woman.

A post shared by victoriakimani (@victoriakimani) on

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *