Best course of action when he cheats close to wedding day

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I can’t really say. I know most grooms cheat a night before their wedding, but for me to catch him redhanded?

A bride’s wedding day is the day she’s been dreaming of all her life. It’s supposed to be a perfect day of love and commitment and celebration.

So when your husband to be cheats so close to the big day, what are you supposed to do? Everything has been paid for, the guest list sent. It’s seriously mixed emotions.

Here’s how these some brides reacted to their fiances’ infidelity…

KARMA.

My ex fiancé who cheated on me right before the wedding, now got cheated on by that same girl. You've no idea, I rejoiced. And then I felt bad, but dang karma!

Should have told her that way before the wedding.

I am supposed to get married this Saturday. Last night, my fiancé drunkenly confessed to having cheated on me at a party 2 years ago. This morning, I called off the wedding.

Savage move.

Saturday is my wedding and I don't love him.. Because he cheated on me once ..but I'm making him a surprise on that day will not show up to my wedding.. I'll be on my vacation in Maldives 😉

Betrayal takes time to get over.

I got butterflies in my stomach every day when I was with my ex. I miss that feeling. I still don't understand why she cheated 1 month before our wedding

So much for family loyalty.

My fiance cheated on me with my younger sister, the morning of our wedding. Which was supposed to be today.

I don’t know what will happen and I don’t pray it happens to me. I don’t want to say I’ll cancel the wedding or continue with it. But you never can tell, anything can happen. Why should I even catch him? Is catching him based on a friend giving me the gist or God showing me what kind of man he is. All these and more will determine my reaction. I’ll forgive him, but I’ll never forget — Anita Joseph, Actress

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The guy has no respect, I swear. Anyways, I will forgive him and go on with the wedding. But I will never forget, the memory will linger on. I will be very heartbroken, but I won’t call off the wedding. They still cheat after wedding, it’s in their nature. We have just very few men that are faithful. I’ll cancel the wedding — Kristama, music artiste

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If she was caught redhanded in the act, then there is nothing much to do. It means it’s been going on since we started dating/courting. If she couldn’t drop it before our wedding night, that means it was meant to be revealed and she’s bound to continue with it even when we’re married. Therefore, the wedding will not hold. I’ll quickly call my parents and hers to inform them about the mess. I’ll also tell my close friends why the marriage will not hold. After that, I’ll switch off my phones, take a break, go somewhere new, do something new. A lot of things would be going through my head at that time, so I need some new distractions. I won’t get intimate with women at that point. After cooling off for a while, my phones will come on again. However, I must be sure of what I saw, so I don’t act too fast or make a wrong move. Confronting her will be my last option at that point, though maybe, later we could talk about it. I believe every disappointment creates a platform for better blessings. I’ll go on with the wedding, but…— Grace Johnson, Actress

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There’s absolutely nothing I can do, because men are bound to cheat. Cheating is in their nature. Before I accepted to marry him, I knew marriage is for better for worse. It’s not a bed of roses. It’s quite unfortunate that it happened a day before my wedding. It’s shameful to mention to my friends and family. So, I’ll continue with the wedding, then we’ll talk about his mess later. But, it’s going to be hard for me to trust him. I’ll move on — Ezinne, Actress

I don’t know what I would do. It depends. I may leave him or go on with the wedding, but I will be very angry. But first of all, I think I’ll just hold off the wedding and move on.

 

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