Pambana na hali yako! Kenyans roast man for being a Dead beat dad

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A man holding his child, in deep thoughts. Photo: Courtesy

Times are hard my friends and people are struggling to make ends meet. In a world where money is given so much importance, and the value of everything is measured in terms of it, it becomes difficult for those who lack or don’t have enough of it (money) to matter in the scheme of things.

Everything in the world today has a price tag, and sadly that includes love. Having the right knowledge about relationships will help get the best out of your relationship. In a world where a lot of women want to date exclusively, there is an increasing number of others who have no problems being with multiple men and playing second fiddle.

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Photo: Courtesy

In a confession, some young lad was in confusion on how to go about with his life, after a few of his ‘bad’ decisions were now haunting him.

I am a 23-year-old man, straight out of campus and I just landed my first job; of which I am very proud. I earn Sh45,000 per month and I manage that pretty well. The problem is, I am also very handsome and it’s hard to keep the ladies away. I may have further gotten myself into trouble by getting three women pregnant (20, 26 and 35 years of age). The babies are due within just a few months apart. Although I intend to be there for all my children, two of the women have already threatened to involve the authorities should I prove to be a dead-beat dad. The good thing is, they do not know about each other. I love my job and I hope to stay at this company for the next five years or so. Daktari, how can I manage to save for my future and still provide for all three children?

With that in mind, assume you were a 23-year old man who has three baby mamas and a monthly salary of Sh45,000. What would you advice him?

Truthfully, having impregnated three ladies at such a young is tough.

Shocking enough, men are silenting struggling with similar situations. Could this be a wake up call?

We never lack to have sadists among us and they keep proving that people are generally sad. Wondering why men claim children don’t belong to them even when you are sure they impregnated you? It’s an ideology some hold dearly.

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