Each of us, as women lubricate differently, there’s no standardized amount of wetness that we are expected to produce. That said, however, little or no lubrication in your vagina can cause your sex session to flop not mentioning the pain and discomfort you will go through.
“Lubrication is your body’s way of telling you that you’re turned on,” says Mary Jane Minkin, M.D, a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynaecology at Yale University School of Medicine.
From being stressed, hormones, not sexually aroused, birth-control pills, you might have experienced vaginal dryness, and the pain you went through was unbearable! So how about on your next sex session, you add lube in your “must haves”? Not only will you make your sex session less painful, but also pleasurable. Lube boosts below-the-belt sensation and allows your man to thrust longer and harder without causing you discomfort. Whether after 10min of foreplay you are still as dry as stone or juice is dripping down your inner thighs, just one dollop could re-shuffle your whole sex life as you know it.
Before you next mattress session, here are some tips as you go for lube shopping
Lubes are mainly water, oil, petroleum or silicone, based, but water-based lube is your best bet
Water-based lube:
- Safe to use with condoms
- Easy cleaning after sex-no stains and no lingering bacteria left behind. But don’t use in the shower as it washes off quite fast.
- Prone to yeast infection? Use one without glycerine
- You have to re-apply during sex, as it dries fast
- Great with sex toys
Oil-based lube
- Not compatible with most condoms-cause latex condoms to deteriorate
- They are super slippery-so perfect when you want to masturbate
- Thicker consistency
- Coconut and olive oil can be your kitchen lube
- Stains
Silicone-based lube
- Super-slippers and lasts longer so-no need of re-applying
- Don’t use with sex toys-breaks down the toys and destroys them
- Can use in shower
- Hypoallergenic
You will take a while to know what works for you, there are so many products out there. You can try solo to find what you like. Remember, a little lube goes a long way. So start small then increase if need be. If you put too much, it can make it impossible to generate frisky friction.
Do not go to River Road for lube cause you are trying to save some coins, ensure you use high quality. Cause as much as lubes are bedroom savers, using the wrong one can put you in a health risk.
Now tell him to stop spitting on his dick as lube!