Some ladies were blessed to always have a good wet P whenever they need to (which is during sex) while others sometimes struggle with the condition. One minute you’re wetter than the Amazon during the rainy season, and the next it’s like you’ve just landed at the Sahara… Literally within spam of seconds. You even start to talk to your coochie in the middle of the action like girl WASSUP???
Contrary to common belief, getting occasionally dry down there is actually pretty normal. Though most men won’t accept that smh. Fact is, there are a number of many reasons why women experience vaginal dryness, and the problem is a lot more common than you’d think. Here are a few explanations as to why…
1. Your body needs a little more foreplay…
Give a woman a little bit more arousal then penetration. 30 seconds. . . 1 minute or even 5 minutes of foreplay is never enough. The coochie needs a little more of direct stimulation before she gets really wet enough for penetration… ya dig? Take her slow, build up momentum; that way, she won’t dry out.
2. Stressed out AF
Stress usually has the tendency of dampening the mood and energy around you. and you can add vaginal dryness to the list. If it doesn’t affect your libido, then feeling anxious or pressured can make it harder to get aroused. Once the stress lifts and you’re mind is super blank and calm, your juices should start flowing. What you thinking about hunny?
3. Medications
There are some medications that just eff up your hormones. They tend to cause hormonal imbalance. These have a drying effect inside the body and cause reduced vaginal lubrication. I suggest you steer clear of cold medicines and antihistamines if you want to maintain your wetness before and after sex. yeah?
4. Irritants
The ingredients in the soap you use to shower, hygiene products, dyes, and perfumes may cause problems as well. Also, lubricant also has some chemicals that may not sit well with your coochie, hence causing her to dry up like the Sahara desert. And this causes the penetration to be a tad bit painful. . . yikes!
When it comes to fun in the bedroom, leave all your worries at the door and just have fun.