Does it Really matter how many Men we’ve slept with??

kinky ways, tie him up, strip tease,

Here’s the thing. We’ve had this debate over and over in time again. And as long as women are shamed for being themselves, we will continue to have this conversation for as long as it takes. And here’s why.

When talking about women with multiple sexual partners, we often wonder why our male counterparts don’t receive nearly as much of the same negativity. If you’re not in a monogamous relationship it’s perfectly alright to enjoy sex with different people that is until one of them decides to put a ring on it.

This also depends with the type of person you are though. Don’t try stuff if you’re not meant for it. But you know what, as long as you know what’s happening and you’re good with it,  say go for it!

fertility- Zumi
1. Variety is the spice of life

Different men bring different things to the table, sexually. Maybe your Monday boo gives great head while you’re Friday bae has amazing stroke game. Why choose when you can have the best of both worlds?  Take the time to enjoy both and think about what aspect of their sexual prowess you enjoy and why this will help you understand your own sexual needs.

sex- Zumi
2. Intimacy isn’t for everyone all the time

Sex and intimacy don’t necessarily have to go hand in hand. While sex can be an intimate act, it isn’t always. Building intimacy takes time, and you don’t necessarily want or need to do it with every guy you sleep with and that’s ok. Sometimes sex is just sex, and knowing the difference will help you recognize when you’re truly ready to be intimate with someone.

sex is good, sex talk, sex

3. Exploration is good

Having multiple partners allows you to try different things. Maybe you’re more comfortable trying doggy with Martin and not so much with Maurice. Allow yourself to explore your sexuality differently with different partners. This will help you gain a better understanding of what you like in bed, leading to better sex, and that’s always a good thing.

4. Be Careful

You’ve heard it a thousand times before, but I’ll say it once more for the people in the back, practice safe sex! While sexual exploration with multiple partners is great, you have to take care of yourself. This goes both emotionally and physically. Being safe is especially important when you have multiple partners. Emotionally, understand yourself and only do what you are comfortable with. Stay in touch with your feelings because sex often comes with emotions. You have to protect your heart too.

signs you will get back with your ex

Sex with multiple partners is not wrong, so don’t worry about having sex with Deno on Thursday because you had sex with Kevo on Monday. It’s part of learning about yourself. Stay true to yourself and explore with care.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *