Media personality cum radio host Shaffie Weru has warned ladies against sharing or taking nude videos and photos of themselves and sharing them with their lover.
Seconding his sentiments, Shaffie said that there are toxic men out there who will pretend to love you but after they win your trust they will not hesitate to harm you.
“Ladies you better beware. We have toxic men out there. By the time you trust and you get to that level you think that your love has reached a level where you start recording each other or you send each other nudes or videos of you playing with yourself, think twice. This is because things will happen, even if the man doesn’t leak them, the videos or pictures will be in that device even if you delete them. We have IT gurus whose job is to access data from people’s phones. Be careful,” he said on Kiss 100.
He then had a message for men who try to extort money from their former flames.
“And for dudes extorting money from someone you’ve been with, sleeping with or been in a relationship with, times are tough but bro that’s stopping too low you are letting everybody down including yourself,” he said.
His sentiments come days after TV beauty queen Ella Wanjiru’s sex videotape was leaked by a man who she loved and trusted at some point in her life. According to her, the man was blackmailing her asking for 20K failure to it he would release intimate videos and pictures.
Ella explained that the person behind the leakage of the videos demanded money from her and even after sending the money he still went ahead to leak the photos and videos.
“Tough times don’t last, tough people, do. Some people on social media streets feed on misery. So let me own this and take their power away.
“Intimate pictures and videos of me are being shared on social media. They were never meant for public distribution. Strictly for a person, I chose to trust.
The TV Queen went on to narrate how she met the man behind the leaked video.
“A simple story of Girl meets Boy. I fell for him and gave all of me. He ransomed my dignity at 20,000 Shillings and released our intimate communication, knowing that it shall be shared, go viral and become clickbait. My friends, sending my vulnerable images to others only breathes further life into my personal nightmare. I ask you to deny this extortionist their power. My parents may not be with us, but I’m still someone’s daughter” She wrote.
She went ahead to request her fans not to share the video since she would get hurt adding that the incident has left her to feel unsafe about her future.
Please don’t share. If you are or have gone through this experience, you’re not alone, and it’s definitely not our fault. This has left me feeling scared, unsafe and worried about my future. However, I refuse to be threatened, shamed or humiliated”.
“To my Support System (Instafam) thanks for your endless patience and compassion. No malicious comments, no victim-shaming has been expressed towards me by you. Asante. Love & Light.”
Their fight broke out about after Mange accused Zari of living a fake life that included renting cars to stunt for the gram. In response, Zari accused her of being an escort in the USA whilst living in the ghetto and relying on food stamps.’
Mange then decided to pull a fast one on Zari by posting her old sex tape before Vanessa Mdee asked her to pull it down.
In her defense, Zari disclosed that the intimate tape made its way online after her lover recorded their intimate session then leaked it after she refused to be blackmailed.
“I’m not ashamed of my past, you don’t plan for a sex video to come out. The time I left Ivan I was dating a person and because it was a long distance relationship thing, we would get on the phone and do whatever we have to do, we were adults and we had our intimate moments. It came to a point where this person had recorded a session. It came to a point where I decided to leave the relationship and he blackmailed me that I should pay him. I said it’s fine, you wanna release this video? It’s fine. You cannot blackmail me for having a relationship with you. You wanna blackmail me by releasing my sex video that you recorded? It’s fine to go ahead and he did. It’s in the past,” said Zari.