Let’s Face it, You were DEFINITELY Meant to be a Side Chick

At this time and age, weird things happening in Relationships, and Marriages are no longer news. We are so used to them that its become a norm in the society. Take Side chics for example. Back in the day it was such a bad thing to be or have a side chic. Nowadays there are professional side chics who are only available as side chics and nothing more.

And its perfectly fine. In any case not everyone is meant to be in a relationship if we’re being real.

There are a lot of things that make up a side chick: a willingness to available at any time, an ultimate desire to be considered “fun” and “cool”, and maybe even a taste for infidelity. Whatever it is, if you have two or more of the signs below, you are basically begging to be a side chick. It’s good to know your truth, but don’t allow this be a cycle in your life, unless that is what you want.

1. You enjoy being the side chick or at the very least, you don’t mind

You aren’t a victim of circumstance, you genuinely find thrill in being the other woman. It could also be that you didn’t know and once you found out you were the in fact side chick, you continued to entertain him anyways.

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2. You are simply concerned with getting what you can out of the guy

It could be a good time, it could be the sex itself or maybe money. Whatever it is, that is your main priority and the fact that he has a girlfriend or wife doesn’t really concern you.

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3. Your conversations are mostly about sex

Whether it’s him or you who initiates it, it’s clear that you guys don’t have anything else to talk about or have absolutely nothing in common apart from sex.

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4. You have no problem remaining a secret

A girlfriend is always flaunted around, you on the other hand, remain more or less a secret, and you have no problem with that, or at least you don’t mind and have come to terms with it.

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5. You don’t mind settling for less

This is not just in your relationships, but in other aspects of your life as well. You stayed in that low paying job since it did pay you on time and that’s better than nothing. This can sometimes manifest itself into your love life.

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6. You don’t insist on going on a real date

You mostly stay home with him, because either he can’t be seen in public with you, or you’ve never really insisted on one. If you have, he probably said no, and the story ended there.

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It’s truly up to you to change those habits if you want to, and if you don’t want to, continue doing you girl.

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