Boo, Stop doing these Stupid Things for a Man who don’t need you!

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Its no secret that women often will do anything and everything for their man….who s not even their man but is their man… see what I mean? Bending over backwards for some probable piece of sh*t who doesn’t even know her second name tsk!

Most of us have been in a situation where we have done stupid things for men. Where we have lowered our values, standards and ourselves just to make them happy. When a man knows you can do anything for him he will always take you for granted. If you did stupid things before then you should not do them again and if you haven’t done them then don’t do these following things.

1. Doing his laundry and washing his house 

When did you become someone’s maid? Can you man come to your house and clean for you? If he can, then do it together at all times but don’t make cleaning a responsibility, clean your own house girl!

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2. Giving him money 

When did you become a bank? If he is not your husband you can’t afford to be giving a man money or supporting him, you need to save and buy jewelry.

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3. Performing sexual acts that you’re not comfortable with 

Doing things you’re not comfortable with is a big no. You may do everything to please a man and he will still cheat with some ratchet girl from God knows where while you’re trying to play 50 shades of grey.

4. Living with a man who has not married you 

Living with a man who is not married to you is basically giving him privileges that he doesn’t deserve. Know your worth princess, let him take you home, pay dowry for you before he can ask for conjugal rights and such stuff. Sex and cooking for him is not a must when you’re just dating.

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5. Sending nudes to make him happy 

Do you know you can split up and he can post those nudes online? I mean Kim Kardashian made money from that but you will probably just be shamed by the Kenyan community. Keep those nudes off your phone, stare at yourself in the mirror or something.

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6. Using pregnancy to trap a man

This is some low kind of thinking, a child is not a weapon to use for to keep someone around. You need to think about the resources you need to have to take care of a child, after all he can still leave you even after giving birth to a while generation of kids.

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Remember your worth, know your standards and don’t play yourself with someone who just wants to use you. People will treat you based on how you show them and it all begins with you respecting yourself.

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