How To Easily Turn A Friend Into A Foe

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Friendships are forever, at every point in life everyone comes across someone who matches their character and builds a friendship. Some last a lifetime some remain temporary and some we lose them because of our actions.
These are the actions we are going to talk about. I’m sure no one would like to invest in something they do not want to keep because friendship is a true investment. So to help you keep this relationship that has taken you forever to build this are the things to avoid.
1. Relationships
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Other relationships with other people, like if your friend doesn’t like your partner. That one there is a very big issue. not only your partner but if you have friends that do no get along it may prove to be a difficult thing to manage the squabbles.

2. Money

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Friends are always there to support us when we need support. Therefore, it is not unusual to borrow money from your friend whenever you need some and they are in a position to provide. Nonetheless, you should also be aware that according to studies, money has been considered as one of the major issues that end friendships.

In most cases, when borrowing money from a friend, you always promise to pay back as soon as you can. However, this isn’t always the case as most friends take advantage of the friendship and delay repaying back the money they had borrowed. Worse still, some people fail to pay back the money completely.

 

3. Competition

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Competition mainly comes when you fail to understand one another and can’t accept each other’s individuality, then selfishness will finally break your friendship. Do not get me wrong, genuine competition is healthy between friends but unhealthy competition will definitely break your friendship.

 

4. Secrets

It all revolves around you having the ability to keep a secret, nothing more nothing less. If you are a blabber mouth you will not have anyone to call a friend.

 

5. Lack of support

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A true friend is one that is always there for you. He/she should give you full support with your idea or plans. For example, when your friend tells you he/she wishes to start a business or become a teacher, the best thing you should do is give your support. Some friends may feel jealous and fail to offer the support needed. This is likely going to result in a lack of communication between both of you, which finally breaks the friendship. This is because anything apart from support will make your friend feel like you are hateful, envious or full of jealousy.

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