Celebrated video director J Blessing recently posted on his Instagram page a message which has been interpreted in many forms by a section of his 77, 000 followers.
The post, which talks about love and love-related pain, saw one online user rub the producer the wrong way.
“It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel,” reads the introductory part of J Blessing’s message.
An Instagram user, @dress_to_kill90, said: “If @chantelle254 @mwendemacharia and @theavieway never satisfied you, my n***a, then you are the one with the problem. Evaluate yourself first, then go to the next relationship.”
The above comment by the Gram user seemingly angered J Blessing, who responded, saying: “@dress_to_kill90 that makes us both with [a] problem. This [post] was just inspiration to my followers and [the] people who needed it. As for you, it seems you comment on the wrong page! This is not [for] bloggers my guy.”
The talented video producer has – for long – been rumoured to be dating Kenyan songstress, Avril Nyambura, who they, allegedly, share a child together.
Prior to Avril, J Blessing dated musician Chantelle of “Toklezea” fame and radio presenter, Mwende Macharia, who they share a child together.
Below is the producer’s full Instagram post:
“It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel
“Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right ones so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful of that gift.
“Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
“A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you and later to find out in the end it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
“When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one that has been opened for us.
“The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.
“It is true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.
“Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don’t expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours
“There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from.
“But don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from their heart. Never say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, never say you don’t love a person anymore, if you can’t let go.
“Love comes to those who still hope although they have been disappointed, to those who still believe although they have been betrayed, to those who still need to love although they have been hurt before and to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again.
“It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget about someone.
“Don’t go for looks, they can deceive, don’t go for wealth, even that fades away.
“Go for someone who makes you smile… Because it takes only smile to make a dark day seem bright.