11 Top-shelf Qualities every husband should possess

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Everyone has a different love story. For some, their great love mirrors the movies. For others, love isn’t a fairy tale. All love is unique and individualised, and truly amazing. The kind of man you should marry is someone you’re madly in love with. He should be nothing less than amazing. Love and marriage are special, so the man you marry should be, too.

The modern man must be both a warrior and a diplomat, a woodsman and a scholar. We need both hard skills and soft skills; skills we use every day and skills we keep in the back pocket, just in case. If you choose to pursue a relationship with a guy who clearly isn’t relationship material, then you’re setting yourself up to fail before you even begin.

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When a guy is ready to get married and meet a girl he thinks he can spend his life with, he knows pretty early on.  Here are 11 qualities every woman should look forward to get from their husband:

  Listen
He should be concerned about her thoughts and stories. A woman wants a husband she can open up to. An emotional companion.

  Keep quiet 
He should know when to hold back his tongue to prevent things from escalating especially when she is moody.

Communicate

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He should learn the art of communication; face to face and over the phone. Learn to check up on her, to engage, to chat her up and keep loneliness away.

Give direction
He should learn to give direction. Where are they going as a couple and family? He should offer confidence, vision and leadership.

Stay faithful 
He should show commitment to the vision of their love through faithfulness. Leading from the front publicly and privately. Keeping off other women.

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Pursue 
He should date his wife no matter how long they have been together. Make her feel special, compliment her, flirt with her, pursue her, romance her, excite her heart, treat her like a Queen.

Boost self-esteem
He should make her believe in herself more, drowning her doubts, allaying her fears, reminding her who she is when she forgets, lifting up her spirits when she feels low, making her feel sexy and beautiful when she does not feel all that.

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  Pray
He should cover his wife and children in prayer, a prayer warrior in the spiritual realm, committing his family to his maker, putting on the full armour and going to war, accessing the spiritual blessings meant for his family.

  Comfort
He should be a shoulder to lean on when she cries, the person she runs to when this world overwhelms her. Her cover.

Sexually arouse
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He should make her feel desired and wanted. Turn her on like crazy. Open her tap of wetness. Know which buttons to push to give her sweet highs.

 Provide
Whether she earns more than him or not, he should play his part in meeting the needs of the family and seek ways to get more provisions and investments.

 

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